When I was 6 years old, I was diagnosed with a Medulloblastoma; a cancerous brain tumour, usually found at the lower, back part of the brain, near the base of the skull. My treatment included stereotactic radiotherapy to the head and spine and chemotherapy. I also had a stem-cell transplant.
My first real challenge, post treatment, was going back to school and trying to fit in once again. It was hard and I felt like I was constantly being excluded, sometimes intentionally, sometimes not. I also found it a challenge trying to change perceptions of people, so that they didn’t always see me as ‘damaged’. And it was hard coming to terms with the fact that I wouldn’t reach my dreams, because my reality had changed, forever.
However, over time, I came to realise that it was not so much the perceptions of others that needed to change, rather, that my own perceptions, of my own limitations that I had once thought I couldn’t overcome – that was what needed to change.
I’ve acquired some practical skills; understanding how I can best present my strengths and abilities in my CV to employers without being dismissed pre-interview is a good example! I have learned where I fit in now and accepted that the goals I had before my treatment needed to change. So now I have new goals and new aspirations that are achievable and that make me happy. I’ve also realised throughout this journey that I can change my negative experiences to positives, by using them to help grow and enhance my determination and resilience.
I’ve achieved a lot so far in life; I’m a teacher in a special needs school. I’ve found a path in life which allows me to use my experiences daily to help other people. I’ve gained a blue belt in kickboxing, despite my balance issues, which I was told I would never overcome.
Gradually I have been able to pick up techniques and develop routines to help me enjoy an independent lifestyle.
Success Charity has allowed me to meet others with similar experiences and to share my story and offer support. It has given me a platform to help me make a difference in the way brain tumour survivors are seen by society.
